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A disciple follows Jesus to become like Jesus. We cannot make disciples unless we are disciples ourselves.

Begin

Begin

Think of someone whose life has genuinely reflected Jesus. What was it about that person—not just what they believed or did—that made an impression on you?

Explore

Explore

When Jesus commissioned his followers to make disciples of all nations, he wasn't simply giving the church a task to accomplish. He was describing the kind of people we are called to become. We cannot make disciples unless we are disciples ourselves.

Throughout Matthew's Gospel, Jesus shows us what discipleship means. Like Israel at Mount Sinai, we are called to be a holy people who reflect God's character. But Jesus calls us beyond outward obedience to a transformation of the heart. Following Jesus means learning to live under his kingdom, loving what he loves, and becoming increasingly like him.

And this is not something we accomplish through determination alone. God gives us his Spirit to transform our hearts and form us into the likeness of Christ. The church fulfills its mission as Spirit-formed people who follow Jesus, become like Jesus, and help others do the same.

Read Matthew 28:18-20.

  • Jesus commands his followers to make disciples, not simply gather converts or teach religious information. What does that distinction tell us about the mission of the church?

Read Exodus 19:4-6 and Matthew 5:17-20.

  • God called Israel to be a holy people, and Jesus calls his followers to a righteousness that goes deeper than outward obedience. What is the difference between participating in religious activities and the genuine holiness of actually becoming more like Christ?

Read Ezekiel 36:26-27.

  • God promises to give his people a new heart and put his Spirit within them. How does this change the way we understand spiritual growth? What is God's part, and how do we respond?

Where have you noticed God at work in your life recently—perhaps challenging an attitude, stirring a desire, or inviting you toward greater Christlikeness?

Where do you find it easiest to settle for outward religious behavior rather than allowing God to change your heart? What might it look like to respond to his grace in that area?

Respond

Respond

Practice

Each day, take a moment to ask two questions:

  • Where have I noticed God at work in my life today?
  • How can I respond to his grace with one concrete act of obedience?

Choose one area where you sense God inviting you to grow. Pray about it daily and take one intentional step toward becoming more like Jesus.

Prayer

Lord, give us hearts that love what you love. Transform us by your Spirit so that our lives reflect Jesus and help others follow him. Amen.